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Dating Russian WomenDating a Russian woman is not so very
different to dating a woman in your own country. Treat her politely
and with consideration and you will be on the right track. Russian
women are beautiful and value friends and family, if you are serious
about finding a bride from Russia then here are a few tips on dating
one.
Russian women appreciate men who take care of themselves
and their appearance and look good. You don’t have to be Mr.
Universe or amazingly attractive, but if you are unkempt and
unfashionable then most women will not be interested.
Russian women generally will not ask you for money. They are
very independent and to ask for money is a shameful thing to do, so
if one of the women you are corresponding with in Russia does ask,
then be very careful. If you have known them for some time and
really feel it is a genuine reason they are asking then the decision
is yours. If you have only known them for a short time and already
they are demanding a large amount of cash from you, use your common
sense.
When dating a Russian woman always try to be as
honest with her as you can. Starting off any relationship with
half-truths or lies will guarantee it to fail. Many Russian women
are very intelligent and educated and looking for a steady and
honest partner with whom to spend their lives with, if you are found
out to have lied to her then the trust is broken and trust is a very
important aspect to Russian relationships. They are also very loyal
and will expect their partner to have the same values.
When
writing letters to your Russian lady be aware that English is not
her first language and write accordingly. Although many Russians can
speak perfect English, their reading might not be at such a high
standard and it still remains a second language for them. Use terms
and phrases that are common and easy to understand. As you receive
letters back from her you will get to know her level of
understanding and can reply likewise. If you know her English to be
very basic then it is advised to have your letters translated into
Russian before sending them.
For the first few times you
write keep your letters casual and don’t declare your love for her
straight away! You both need time to get to know each other and if
you are compatible, rushing things won’t help either of you. Also
remember to ask her about herself and her family, background, work,
etc. If you only write about yourself she will get the impression
that you are not that interested in her.
Ensure you know
something about Russian women and the culture of this vast country.
Each culture has its own traditions and beliefs and you don’t want
to put your foot in it at the initial stages. Finding out a little
information won’t harm and she will see that you are serious about
learning something of her culture and country.
When you
finally arrive in Russia to meet you’re the woman you have been
corresponding with, there are various customs that will show you to
be polite and considerate and appreciated. Ukrainians are very
hospitable and as a guest in their house you will receive special
attention and be treated very well. They are sure to lay out a feast
for you and perhaps even give you gifts. If you do get invited to
your girlfriend’s family house then it is polite to take a gift,
just as it is in many other countries where if you are invited to
dinner you take a bottle of wine or chocolates or flowers to say
thank you. If having dinner, turning down food may be considered
rude and be careful when complimenting a host's belongings, as they
may then try to offer them to you.
There are dating and
matchmaking services to be found online that can arrange for you to
correspond with Russian women. They will also offer you advice and
information regarding Russia and The Ukraine, translation services
and personal consultations if required.
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